You hear stories all the time about first date dilemmas. I think I hav

Published Thursday, 25th Jun 20:15 BST

You hear stories all the time about first date dilemmas. I think I have heard more than I ever care to hear about online dating as well. Some people will say anything online. I had a woman on Hold the other day while I was working on another problem in the office, and when I came back on the line with her she was in tears talking to someone else in the room about a first date and how bad it was for her. I just wanted to hug this lady too; I wouldn’t know her if she walked up to me on the street.

A first date in my opinion is one way or the other, good or very very bad. When I was dating and on a first date, I think most of the time I knew right away if this was going to be a disaster and would work a gentle way out of it as fast as possible. There really is no use in prolonging what you know isn’t going to go anywhere now is there?

You can hold on to the notion that another date might make something click I guess. I know I tried that once or twice. It never made a difference. We either parted as friends or seldom if ever connected again. A Hug at the end of a first date was perfectly acceptable. A hold to long in that hug sometimes made me very uncomfortable. Depends on the manners of the young man whether I was going to accept a second date with him or not.

Now every lady isn't the same, a girlfriend of mine says a kiss and a hug at the end of a date is what she expected. A kind of hand shake for her I suppose. I discovered for the very few there is such a thing as love at first sight. I have never seen this happen, but I have been told several timesit has happened toothers. Mostall of them fail, butoccasionally,there's thatrare instance that it will last and last forever, so it does happen.

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